Welcome to your Body. Remembers pleasure. I'm your host, Rahi Chun. This podcast is devoted to sexual embodiment, intimacy, and the body's innate capacity to heal, feel, and remember pleasure. If something here resonates with you, you're welcome to explore more writings and resources@rahichun.com. And now let's begin.

 Today we invite Olivia Naomi Bryant, creator of self cervix to the podcast. Self cervix is about self-education, self reclamation, and self revolution By reclaiming and inviting a love affair with this often overlooked and medically mistreated part of the sexual and reproductive anatomy.

Studies show that 60% of orgasms by vulva owners are experienced clitorally. Whilst only 10% are experienced cervical, despite the cervix being innervated by three sets of paired nerves, the most of any part of the reproductive anatomy. What is it about our current society's sexuality habits and patterns that prevents or avoids the deepest and richest of innovative sensations and experiences from becoming available?

And what are effective and compassionate ways to de arm the self-protective guarding response of the cervix with patience, curiosity, and love. I am very excited to be introducing Olivia Naomi Bryant, creator of Self Cervix to the podcast today. To share her bio, I'm gonna quote her in her own words.

She states, I started this work because I needed to heal. I felt like I was housing a brick inside of my pelvis. It was heavy, blocked, and painful. I had no libido and very limited access to orgasm. This challenge became the beginning of a big adventure. In the larger picture of my life, I realized that I had a longing to find access to orgasm.

After years of following instructions using vibrators and signing up for courses, I'd almost given up. I decided that I must be one of those people that wasn't wired for internal orgasms, and so I decided to celebrate the pleasure I did have. What I now know is that we are all human and orgasms of all kinds are natural for us.

What are unnatural are the things that block these experiences such as shame and trauma. Self cervix was born as my personal exploration into why my cervix was numb and how I could turn it into an organ of pleasure. Self cervix is so many things. It is sex education. It is sexual healing, self intimacy, and a movement about rewriting and reclaiming the cervix as part of pleasure anatomy, and it has also evolved into.

A spiritual practice of inner alchemy. I also wanna read this little part, also part of self cervix. We are a community dedicated to revolutionizing the way the cervix is viewed by the medical profession, by science and by sex educators. We are a global network of practitioners, teachers, and lovers devoted to healing and exploring the orgasmic potential of the cervix.

Olivia, thank you so much for joining us today. It's great to have you. Thank you, Rahi. It's such a it's really, I so appreciate being able to have the opportunity to share with more people about the cervix and this work. So thank. It really is a revolution I feel like your inquiry has created and that has, birthed into self cervix and the journey of self cervix has been such an incredible journey of starting out as cervical disarming, and it's evolved into such a.

Experience of self intimacy and self-loving and now into this portal of exploring the inner alchemy of spiritual embodiment. There's so much I wanna explore here, but I wanna start by asking you, you share about the eighth month, the eight month journey that started with the tantric session in Bali, that led you to become aware that your cerv cervix was numb to the eight month journey of deaming it.

And I'm wondering if you could start off by sharing for our audiences who aren't familiar with self cervix, what did you know about your cervical potential at the time? Because I believe you were a sex educator for many years. And what was that eight month journey like that birthed into the self cervix experience?

When I, honestly, I'd put the whole concept of cervical orgasm seemed a completely inaccessible fairytale for me actually. And I was working, I was on my own sexual healing journey already, and I had trained in a little bit of sex coaching, but not nothing. That was nothing that really helped me.

It, for me, it all felt very conventional and I, it wasn't giving me any access, nor were any of the many neo tantric tan trainings that I signed up for. And I really went on this o on my own pilgrimage, and that just so happened that I went through a really difficult relating experience and my whole body was shut down.

And so that led me to go and seek healing and. To be honest, I actually put down the the, my ambitions of sexual healing and wellness and expansion because it just seemed like this huge mountain that with, full of potholes and landmines and really scary things that would seem like there, I dunno if, it just felt very big to me and I just gave it up.

And then one day I had this healing session and the practitioner said, can you feel your cervix? And I could not. It was absolutely numb. And what I did know because of my previous readings and, my delighting and what might be possible, I'd read in the work of Dr. Barry Zaro. Yes, Dr.

Beverly Whipple. Their book, the Science of Orgasm, and in there they are, they list the orgasmic nature of the cervix due to its three sets of paired nerves that are connecting into it. So I knew that there was a potential there, but it just felt so abstract to me because at that point, and I know this is true for so many of us with Cervixes, that the cervix felt very uncomfortable, numb, medicalized, not at all sexy, mostly about birth or HPV or cervical dysplasia.

Most of us have experienced pap smears and, biopsies and cervical torture essentially. So the actual possibility that it was not only pleasurable potentially, but also orgasmic just seemed. Like out of range. So I wasn't surprised when I could not feel my cervix, but actually it really provided me with such deep it gave me this clue and a pathway as to why I wasn't particularly orgasmic at that time in my life.

Because this place in the body, it's like the canary in a coal mine, it's like signaling what's going on with the rest of my pelvic anatomy. This is a numb, there's this actual very powerful place in my body that's completely numb, so it made sense to me that I couldn't feel a lot and I know that so many others.

I had been particularly trained and conditioned to the clitoral pathway. Not only had I been trained and conditioned to the clitoral pathway, but with a very massive vibrator. Wand. It was a very important part of my journey, and so I never wanna put that down or shame at it because for me it was a very, yeah, it's very important for my own development.

But there came a time when I realized that my internal world was just not online at all. There was no connection because I was it just wasn't in the range. Yes. So it made sense to me that sex was okay, but not not nothing like all these stories that I'd read about and all these potential experiences.

And I do think that in my heart and soul, I had a very deep yearning to understand. All of myself, my human potential. But this, these sort of mystical spiritual experiences that can occur to us in our human experience. And I deeply longed for that sense of connection that I think that we're all seeking when it comes to pleasure and especially orgasm, like the existential connection back to something way bigger than ourselves.

So yeah, that set me on the journey. And then there was, this first part was just this exploration of why is this, why do I feel numb? And that led me down the road of isn't that interesting that it's attached to the vagus nerve, which is all about regulating our nervous system for safety.

And yet my cervix is numb. What is that doing to my nervous system? And then I got into a whole sort of. Interest in trauma healing and the cervical deaming and that's how I started to unlock my body very slowly over time. Yeah. So that journey, like when you talk about the journey of cervical deaming, Olivia how much of it was going to practitioners, how much of it was being with your own cervix, how much of it was being with a lover?

Can you help listeners understand? Because I find that most of my clients', cervixes, are numb during the first session. And there's just this, I want to get to the Kinsey report later, but there's just this incredible void of education and understanding about the potential that the cervix has because as you point out of these three sets of nerves that are connected to it, yeah, there's a massive void and it's, it it's interesting isn't it, that there's this void around the most.

Powerful place in our body. Exactly. Should be, it should be held on a pedestal as oh, this thing, but it's not sure. It's oh it is for the birthing world, of course. And a lot of my work is inspired by the orgasmic birthing movement, but this whole other area that I think when not integrated and not understood, leaves a gaping hole, no pun intended.

Sure. Where the, where we could be experiencing a more multidimensional kinesthetic experience of pleasure. Yes. That's way, broader than, than, I don't really, I'm very cautious of using words like shallow or superficial, because you can have great sex without knowing that the cervix is there.

But I just think that it does give this fuller mental map of what's going on inside. It really just helps orient your mind to. Deeper places inside the body that are really orgasmic, that are real and brings more reality to something that's such a mystery. The journey for me was mostly on my own.

And I think that there was some sort of divine intelligence to that as well, because, it's not easy when you're also, when you're trying to heal your own pleasure body and your own sexuality, and then you're also dealing with somebody else's triggers and wounding and desires and pleasures and, so in a way it was a blessing that for a lot of this journey I have been on my own because it really has allowed me to be very pure in my my focus, yes. It's not muddled with another person, another dynamic. It has mostly been on my own. I actually developed my own. Wand, yes. So that I could do my own explorations, my own internal explorations, because most of the products that I found on the market were not long enough. Were not the right shape.

So in my determination, I created my own wand, my own tool for exploration, which was amazing. And then occasionally I went to a body worker because I did find that it's great to have an assistant. Yes. It's great to be able to not have your brain, to have your brain in a whole different, wider space.

Not necessarily. Attuned to the doing and the being at the same time, you can have way more of an experience of just being and feeling and experiencing with a body worker. So occasionally I had a few body workers that were I felt very aligned to Yes. I I. And once I found those body workers, I was very, sort of, I stuck with them because I found that finding a body worker, and you might have a lot of understanding in this conversation, that really has integrity and is very clean in the way they they practice. Once you find someone like that it's a beautiful gift. There were a few that I would go to now and then, but and if you have the resources to go more, more often, I think it's an amazing having body workers. So yeah. So that would've been my, mainly it was on my own. And then when I did have lovers throughout this journey, it was interesting because when I look back at, it's been this incremental sort of deepening as with each lover. At first I remember my first lover after about a year of.

Of doing the Deaming work. I remember a comment and he was like, oh, there's a lot going on down there. I remember she did that and I was thinking to myself, I was like, tick little, like little proud heart. 'cause I knew that okay, so something's happening.

There's more blood flow, there's more connection, there's more awareness, there's more presence. And that can be felt. So I think that's a really, just an interesting, when I talk about what I was just saying before, not having that connection, not having that place of orientation.

Yeah. There is an absence there. So when there is full presence there it is, it is a felt experience between two. And then that just grew over time until my last my last lover ship, which was probably everything that I dream dreamed of, except that the. It wasn't a gonna be a sustainable relationship because of, we had a huge age gap.

It was a true lover ship where we, where I got to experience the things that I'd read about years and years ago. But to be, to have contact text, know this was not a fast proce, fast process. And your journey really depends on so many things, like your availability, like a lot of people are so busy.

We've got families and children and work and, this is really I'm devoted to, this is my life path, it depends on your historical trauma, your intergenerational wounding, our collective story and how much you've absorbed into your body, medical procedures to the cervix and how much scar tissue you have.

I wanna say that my cervix is not entirely, there are places on my cervix that are numb, but what became really interesting through growing my sensitivity was a deepening emphasis on the energetics, which we can talk about later. But my, what I'm trying to say is that there is, that, it is, it can be a long, slow, deepening journey.

And so when I read things like Five Steps to Cervical Orgasm, I'm okay, and then we have these. Unrealistic experiences on ourselves. Oh, I did these five steps and it hasn't happened. There's something wrong with me. I'm broken. And I'm like no. This is a spiritual path.

The true essence of a meditation teaching, it's like, you can't. It's like, how long is it gonna take until I find God, I don't know, maybe this life, maybe the next life. You have to release the goal. You have to release that as the outcome, because that's coming from a very different place inside of you.

Yeah, and really find your, find the richness in in going inward in this way and acknowledging and feeling what is there and building on that and deepening into that as you very valid. Beautiful. Human experience, yeah. To just piggyback on that, I wanna read something that I pulled from self cervix, and this is a quote.

It's really important to get into the exploration and forget the goal. As tempting as it is to be orgasm focused, the treasure lies in who you become as you devote yourself. To self-loving action the way the work teaches us how to be with ourselves in a more self-aware and loving way so that we can create the conditions for these epic experiences to open up for us.

And I think this speaks to the evolution of courses at Cervix, which has reflected this deep love affair with oneself and one's body. From deaming, the cervix to self partnership to sovereign heart and exploring the heart cervix, axes. And no, it, there aren't five steps to developing, a love affair with the God in you, you know that you're housing.

I would love to hear a little bit about the evolution of course offerings and how I'm just assuming that this is reflecting your own evolution of realizations that your cervix has taught you. Yes, exactly. So I think when I started, I just DI had no idea ignorance is bliss. Yes. I just like, Hey everyone.

We had 1600 people in this Facebook event when I started right at the very beginning, and I knew absolutely nothing, right? And I was like, Hey, we're gonna do, we're just gonna stimulate our cervix for 21 days and just see what happens. Oh, wow. And it was like, it was huge. So much came up. There was so much, like trauma came up and I was just like, oh no.

What have I, what? Started here. Yeah. And then there was empowerment piece and people just being like, oh my gosh, I've never touched my cervix before and never even thought about this way. And so there was this full, beautiful reclaiming, but then I also realized that there were an awful lot of people just sitting on the sidelines being, I can't.

And just completely blocked, or having experiences of repulsion when they went inside of themselves or nausea would come up as a form of armoring and, and I just realized it's super intense and not not everyone is going to be willing to just dive straight into their service and go for it.

Know, like that's wild to think that you had a 21 day of just let's go. Yeah. Yeah. I can imagine. It's very much my stuff. Yeah. Just to jump right in. Let's do this. And then no. So much. So then I created this program called initiation, which was just slowing it all right down and let's just build a mental emotional connection with this entity, the spirit of our cervixes, the felt sense of it, just with our minds.

And then at the very end, we're gonna do a first touch ritual. And it was all, Ben Martin's work was very influential to me because it was one of the only bodies of work that was really teaching empowerment, because I saw that empowerment was one of the true reasons why we had. Up with these numb cervixes, either our power was taken from us or we'd given it away.

And so we had no other choice but to hold an armor intense and protect. And it was the conne this first piece was about just connecting to your cervix and realizing your power and finding tools for empowerment so that we could potentially move about the world slightly differently with our lovers and partners and with ourselves.

And then, so I worked with that material for, I don't know, four years. And main emphasis for me was just trying to create more sensitivity and space in my body and heal, heal deep wounding that I was holding in my body. So that was a, that was the longest part of this work.

And then when things started to open up, I really, and I got more sensitive. I started to get very much in touch with. Incredibly beautiful energetics, and that formed the method that has now become the Cervical Awakening method. Which now it's, it, a huge part of that is an exploration of sexual energetics, which I see as the kind of the next frontier of where sex is going.

That as we move collectively in a conversation away from, Newtonian matter and everything is, it only exists if you can see it and feel it and taste it and touch it. And we're moving more into quantum conversations where there are scientists exploring consciousness from a quantum perspective.

That became very interesting to me because I think that as we evolve. As we evolve as humans, as we heal and heal our trauma, as we tone our nervous systems, as we develop our sensitivity, I think that the way we are going to be making love and communicating with each other is gonna profoundly shift.

It's very strange. I have these ways of speaking about the work, like the work showed me. I have a real relationship with the spirit of this work That's beautiful. It showed me the energetic currents that run through the body for all of these experiences that I've been speaking of.

And so then a lot of the work became how do we act? How do we allow these currents to flow? What actually causes these currents to flow spontaneously. So I started to, I, so the work, that piece is all about. Embodying our power and learning that it's from an innate sense of our power, our energetics, that moves sexual energy, not from force or manipulation and from mechanics actually.

That there's something deeper at play and it's the energetic piece. So that opened up some really interesting conversation and there was not a lot, there's barely any research. It's just barely any, and, the only person that I could find that was doing anything remotely similar to exploring consciousness and deep spiritual states, was Joe Dispenza.

He's the only person that, has really put some sort of sciencey words around. What might be happening when we enter these meditative spaces that are transcendent or mystical. Yes. So he was like a little bit of a maybe there's something in here that's similar. But the rest of it was literally just this is what it feels like and this is what I'm, this is what I'm really, truly deeply experiencing.

So here it is. What do, what do we think? So it became that exploration and then I realized, wow, we're doing all of this work and yet we're giving our power away. Actually, that came after the release journey. It was like, wow, we're, how are we ever gonna heal our armoring if we keep compromising ourselves in our loving relationships?

If we can't ask for what we want, if we have no sense of connection to re-parenting our wounds, that, so we just keep playing out the same patterns which keep being stored in the body. So how it felt like this, we're doing the body work, but then we're going out in the world and we're doing the same thing.

Yeah. Or we don't have the tools to manage some of the occurrences inside intimate relating. And so that started self partnership because I'd also had experiences where, I wanted this so much that I was really willing to. I was really willing to give myself away for it.

And that's what, that was the painful piece for me was like, wow, like I really compromised myself in this relationship, because I, I had a projection that it was this and it wasn't. And, I had to go through a lot of heartbreak, which was, I could feel was just really impacting my body.

And so it was like, okay, now we are finding out how we can feel empowered in the sexual space, but this is also about relating in intimate relating. So how do we feel? How can we find our power and in our relationships and stop, forgetting who we really are and playing out childhood wounding inside of our relationships.

So that was that. And then I see now the energetics has expanded even more. And now we're looking at the cervix heart axis. Yes. Which, now we're starting to, now we're starting to blend a conversation around consciousness. Sexuality and I suppose creation energy and the frequencies that we're holding inside of our body that get activated during a cervical orgasm experience, but that we can begin to train ourselves to feel every day.

And I started seeing also this misalignment between what we can do in our birthing bodies. Whether we're birthing this way or we're birthing this way what we can do we can do better in terms of our integrity and our rising up and our personal power and our sense of ourselves, rather than doing this thing that we have magic in our bodies.

And then falling away from for, forgetting who we are. Let's, how do we cultivate a strong sense of who we really are through this axis? So the cervix heart axis is embodying belonging and safety at the cervix and love and spirit at the heart. So it's human and spirit coming together, half human, half divine, which is like this experience that we have during cervical orgasm where we're experiencing these transcendent, incredible, magic spiritual experiences through the human sense, through, through our senses, through our bodies.

So it's just taking it to a whole nother level where. We are starting to train how much love and pleasure we can hold in our systems before we short circuit. 'cause that was something incredible that I really noticed was it was like, it's like I, I don't know if you've ever had this during a psychedelic experience where you, I've had this in a psychedelic experience and this was really interesting for me.

It was after a mushroom journey. Like having, holding so much love in my body that it was painful. I've got so much love going through me right now. It's actually hurting. And I, I get how do, I don't have enough, I can't hold this. No wonder love has to spread itself around 7 billion people.

'cause it's love that is channeling through us if we're open and available. It's ex, it's like a, it's intense, it's exclusive, it's it can blow you wide open. Yeah. And so we've gotta get strong in our nervous systems and train ourselves to be able to hold this, how default mode is to, is survival and protection, so to be able to hold love and pleasure, it's like we gotta strengthen that part of our nervous system. It's so that's what the heart axis is really training. Beautiful. Beautiful. Yeah. It does require that nervous system to be really sound and resourced and have a lot of agency.

And also as we expand in our love consciousness and pleasure, like receptivity, it's gonna touch into those old wounds that is, the armor's there for a reason, so it sounds like, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's there for a reason and I call it a joy ceiling or a pleasure ceiling that I find in clients, they can only, it's like there's so much, and then they start to contract a little bit because they've never expanded into that unknown pleasure, which can be very frightening based on whatever associations or wounds there. From childhood associated with that, I wanna bring it back to initiation and release, initiation, just it, it initiating people to get familiar with their pelvises, with their vulvas vaginas and cervixes. And I think the program I did was release and I found it to be not only about cervical disarming, but it was really about disarming the entire vulva vaginal canal before getting to the cervix.

Yeah. And now you've gotten to a place where, you're inviting a surrender into this vast portal, energetic and spiritual, just to make it more practical for a lot of our listeners, like when we bring it back to initiation and release. Some of the practices that are introduced.

For example, Suzanne, really loves the exploration of feeling the finger with the cervix rather than just feeling the cervix with the finger to wake up those touch receptors of the cervix. Or like microneedling, she's really, I'm curious if there are other practices that our listeners can start exploring on their own or through one of the self-service courses. Like you mentioned the self-service wand, which is like such a unique and incredible offering. What are some ways for listeners to start exploring whether their cervix is numb? If they've never made contact with it before? Or start to deam it themselves the way you did.

Yeah. I'm laughing because, start to explore it the way I did. I was like, just dive right in, now it's like this funny thing. I met these amazing midwives and they're like, okay just go for it. We can actually impose so much fear on it, we can build it up to be this huge thing.

And so I also just wanna name that, like remember, you're powerful. You can you've got this, and first of all, I think it's really good to know, have a range of where your cervix might be, because I thought my cervix was just gonna be straight up, because that's what the anatomy textbooks said cervix looks like.

It's straight up there. So I spent the first couple of weeks of my journey just like going up there I know it's some somewhere up here, and I was like, I must be on my cervix, but I'm not really feeling anything. That makes sense. Then one day I was just offroading, what's, how else is going on here?

And I found my cervix right over to the left Uhhuh, so it was on the left wall. And there'd probably be a lot of, my abdominal massage people saying, oh, you can realign this, you can realign this. But, and I have done a little bit of work around that, i've surrendered into the fact that's where my cervix just is resting.

It's, that's what that's where it is. So if you find it there, it's okay. You can work to move it, but it might just go back to where it was this so you've got these ligaments around the cervix. So the, a really good place to start with your practice is working around the cervix and seeing how it feels around the cervix.

'cause often the ligaments are the things that are tight. Because it's the ligaments that pull in when you're in fear and contraction. When a person is birthing and the cervix isn't opening, it's often because the ligaments are not allowing it to. So it is, that's where we actually wanna start working. So like around the cervix more than directly on it. And I found that actually helps the cervix relax down and realign. It can be quite hard to reach, depending on your cerv, where your cervix is placed, depending on your anatomy.

Like I have a long body and short arms and a T-Rex body, so it's it's quite awkward. Squatting is good and actually Suzanne, she taught me years ago, you can actually, it's not very sexy, but you can, if you really need to, you can sit on the toilet, you can do it right there.

'Cause of the body is positioned. You're just trying to shorten the torso. And to be honest, like I said, like you said, often so much of our armoring is way before we get to the cervix. If you are curious and you wanna know where your cervix is, then yeah go to your cervix.

But There is a lot. Other, there are a lot of other places that might need some loving touch. If you find a place as you go about your exploration that feels numb, or feels acidic, or feels a little painful or tight, just spend some time on there just pressing into it with your finger.

I like to bring my mind into the space between my finger and the tissue. Really, I start to find like that micro attention. And then I really like to just, I don't like to push so much as I like to let my tissue guide me. I like to lean and just let the tissue let you in. So you're really teaching the tissue how to that you respect it and that you're not gonna do what has been done in the past, and that you really trust the intelligence of the tissue to move itself.

And it's cool when you do that because the tissue actually starts guiding your finger. It will actually, kind of start signaling either with sensation or with melting, oh, come this way. Oh, it's over here. And so it's a very cool little journey you can have if you're willing to start following your finger inside of yourself.

And then once you get to your cervix, I always say there isn't a right way to, to touch or dma your cervix, just what is right for you. So this is really about your own exploration. So I found that for me, I like to have consistent patterning of touch. So like circling my cervix for a while, a little while, as long as I can manage actually.

It gives my ti my brain time to presence. Oh, okay. There's some sensation there. Oh, okay. It's moving in this direction. And that is what I found started to awaken presence and sensation at my cervix. That's fantastic. A consistent pattern. That's really fantastic. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. If you can just underscore that Olivia.

'cause I think that's a really important insight is the consistency of a pattern until there's this brain felt sense connection of what's, of what your cervix is experiencing is like a way of waking up those touch receptors. That's right. That's right. And then the interesting thing about that is, pleasure is perceived.

So you, if you really surrender and open your mind, it's possible because I've done it to transmute or transform this touch that might be neutral. In your felt sense experience of it to something that starts to become pleasurable. A different kind of pleasure, potentially. But that's why you have to have this open mind.

And sometimes you might feel a referred warmth in your belly. And so you're just actually looking for what feels good. Because we can go into this with a very fixed mindset. I'm not feeling anything. What's the point? It feels numb. It feels uncomfortable, and it is like this fixed, it's just stay with that.

And so it really requires a releasing of what you, what is predictable, what you imagine what, like what you already think is there to just open up and be like, all right what else? Let me breathe and relax a little bit more. And the more you can relax into your finger the more space is created for feeling. So that's another really important key. So the repeated pattern and just this continual sense of relaxing through the cervix into the finger. So those are two little things. If you feel. Resistance. If you feel repulsion, know that it's a beau of actually a very, it's a gift, even though it's deeply uncomfortable.

It really will. It just shows you, okay, there's some love here. I need to claim back for myself. This is not mine. This is old. Doesn't belong to me. I am now reclaiming my body and I'm gonna breathe through this. And, it's I like to think of parts of my body as personas, so there's a little part of you that, that is, is feeling sad because you think it's repulsive, what would you do to a little child who is feeling repulsive? You'd be like, it's okay. It's like I'm here. It's it's hard for me too, but I'm breathing. I'm here with you.

I'm, yeah. I love you. It's starting to have this new relationship with it. The other thing that can come up that's, that can be difficult is the void, is the numbness. And so I just wanna repeat, stay with it. It shifts, it transforms. You have to be willing to go into the void and trust, you have to be willing to create inside of the void.

Creation is a very important word, I think. Our minds are very powerful. And so in this void space, that is nothing, that is emptiness. Make something up. Use your imagination. I say to people who feel anxious that they rely a lot on fantasy for arousal.

I'm like, oh, you've got a great gift. What an imagination. Let's put this inside of the void and see what you can create there. Is it colors? Is it like, what does the texture look like? And so you create something inside of there that begins to open up a something Yeah. As something that they can hold onto, because.

Emptiness is, it's very uneasy feeling. What I'm hearing and what I feel like has been echoed by Suzanne's work is really rebuilding trust. If the cervix is used to being banged up against or being snipped at, or, whatever the procedures are, then its wisdom is going to have it protect itself.

So it's really building kind of a new relationship and a new way of a new way for the cervix to learn how it can be listened to and attuned to, and be presence with. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. It's about trust. I always say, your cervix just wants the same thing that you want.

Love, presence, attention, it wants to feel safe. So the only way is to start being with it differently. Yeah. And so that's part of the cervix, heart access work. It's like being with it differently. Holding up. A different emotional state and I wanna put in these words often come up impatience and frustration when it comes to our sexuality, when it comes to our orgasm, impatience and frustration, judgment, shame, all of these emotional imprints that we're sending directly down into the cells into the tissue. And, it's so important to start going Okay. That's been there. It's, I'm very present and that is not safe for my body to open.

Yeah. There's a lot of, we come into this work with so much ambition. We want what we want and that's fair enough. But, ambition has expectation tied into it, and then there's disappointment and then there's blame and shame. And it's like you, it's a true spiritual practice of presence and acceptance of this is what is here, and I'm celebrating that. And it's very difficult for our ambitious, driven minds to, to get our heads around. Yeah. Wanting something but not wanting it so much that it's that that we just feel expectation and disappointment. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Part of that ambition and results oriented kind of mentality or societal conditioning.

I feel what I really appreciated about a lot of your material is encouraging. I read somewhere on your site an encouragement of a 30 day clitoral orgasm fast. Yeah. Because we're so trained to be stimulation and results oriented, that a lot of times it is relied on as a way to avoid actual armor or actual real material that's waiting to be metabolized and released. And I feel you know what, you're speaking of this really. Slow, beautiful love affair that develops by listening, by being with the tissues and responding to the tissues of the cervix is a new way of self-loving that is not the antithesis. Again, to your point earlier, like Littoral orgasms are wonderful, but I think as a society it's really over relied on for pleasure at the expense of the more deeper, vaginal or cervical terrains. Yeah, it is it's easiest. It requires less vulnerability. You can, you can apply some force.

If nothing's happening, you can, you can. It's just it offers things that, it's useful. But, 30 days is not a lot compared to a lot and compared to what, very pure neo tantric teachers would be like, n not at all. Really just get off it and there's this.

And I don't really I don't really subscribe to any kind of diet, whether it's, I don't like I don't like that. I think that we're, we need to learn to have it all in balance. And, but for me. Yeah, there's an awful lot of resistance that comes when I say, okay, we gotta, we've gotta not have ral orgasm for a while.

I have to hide Of course. Yeah. Take your to away. It could be really tough, but I'm saying 30 days. When I did my first year, I think I would've had maybe four, four clitoral orgasms in that whole year, uhhuh. And it was really hard. And I thought, I'll never feel, I'll never have an orgasm again.

It was really hard. And, I yeah. I just say, 30 days, I think it's fine. Just make sure, I think the main thing for me is make sure you're putting more emphasis on your internal world and your exploration. Do that more for a while. That's the main thing.

'Cause there's a lot that, there's a lot that, we have c claral orgasms because potentially sometimes we are avoiding feeling. And sometimes armoring is necessary. Sometimes it's not the right time to feel our loneliness or to feel, to feel our lack of connection or whatever it is that's sitting there, feel our grief.

It's not always the right time, but it's like any addiction. If you want to go deeper, if you really want to find connection, you gotta be willing to give that up to see what is there, which circles us right back around to the conversation of being able to hold and resource yourself. Yes.

Which is what the self partnership work came in and did. Because if you don't have that tool of re-parenting and learning to love yourself, you take away what has been like the. The blankie, you take away the blankie. And then it's there's nothing there that's gonna hold the, that's gonna support what might come up.

If you're, if you don't have the clitoral orgasm is like the dopamine hit that's gonna make it all feel better again and cover it up. So this is an interesting line with the claral orgasm because it's so beautiful and it has a great medicine for so many reasons.

And yet it has these other effects. Like it can follow an addictive track. And it can, pull the energy in the wrong direction. And it's actually then much harder to. It's like shifting gears to go back in again and feel the deeper energies that are moving in the other direction.

Yeah it's, yeah. So that's where I sit with it. I'm very moderate with that. Yes. 30 days is enough to create a new pattern. It's great to kind of reship the focus. The clitoris is not going anywhere. It's a time to create new neural pathways and to discover, it's if I'm already, if I'm always eating, potato chips before a great.

Homemade dinner, I'm not gonna enjoy the dinner. So it just a 30 day fast is not that big of a deal. But I love, no, I love the emphasis and in the advanced practice, when you get really practiced at your internal world, actually, you can actually use the clitoris as part of it.

It actually has its own little current moving between clitoris and cervix. So it's the cervical, the clal energy can kick up into the cervix and actually inspire it only. For me that came way later. These are the kinds of insights and understandings I would be so excited for, like mainstream society to know about, like just what you pointed out there to you, it's it's part of your journey, you know that later on you discovered how engaging the clitoris is, like sends a certain energy to enhance your cervical orgasms.

And I just. Want people to know all of this, it's just so incredible. It's so incredible. Yeah, so self cervix.com. Go check it out. There's so many great courses and great material. There's a section just on science, there's a section, oh, I wanna say there's a free, there's a couple of free material, but one is how to heal from leap procedures that can damage nerves and create scar tissue and certainly create armor.

And I wanted to point out, Kate shares in the document, which is free, it's free to download, go to self cervix.com, how her leap procedure at age 25 not only altered her sexual embodiment and libido and pleasure, but her whole zest for life. Yeah, it reminded me of Naomi w Wolfe's book Vagina when she talks about how her orgasms went from being color to like black and white.

And yeah, if you're listening and you've had a leap procedure and experienced some kind of shift in sexual responsiveness or sensations go to the resources section and you can download how to heal from LEAP procedure. Do you know, is there an alternative to leap procedures? Yeah, there must be safer ways is, the thing is, it's very difficult for me to talk about this 'cause I'm not a medical procedure, a PR practitioner, and I know that this could be triggering for if you've got some listening.

Got it. I wanna just offer an option because in No, no way do I wanna take somebody's, I understand this can be a very scary situation. I think that the doctors tend to rush in and they tend to make it very scary. So then we are rushing in and actually it takes a very long time for these things to develop into something life threatening a very long time.

So I would, I say from myself, my personal. My personal opinion is weight. There are alternative healing. There's a alternative. You can heal naturally. There's a lot out there on the website, on the web right now about protocol for healing naturally. So I would go down the, that road of like supplements and lowering stress levels before going into any.

Invasive medical procedure that cuts the cervix. A hundred percent. That would be my recommendation. But I also, every woman has to make this dec, every person with a cervix has to make this decision based on what they feel comfortable with. But there is a long time between development of these things and actual cervical cancer yeah.

So protocols of supplements if they do search on the web, there are alternatives to heal naturally. It can take about a year or two to heal naturally. So you can you might wanna go back every six months and see if there's a progression, but if there's no progression, just keep going. Keep trying to keep doing the healing work naturally because interestingly, I found a lot of people who end up developing cervical dysplasia, myself included, we'd had a lot of emotional trauma before that. Actually occurred. And so it's, it seemed to be this Yeah. Like a reflection of something that had been going on emotionally hard stuff. Yeah. That was manifesting in the uterus that was coming out and presenting at the cervix.

I see. And so the healing is, yeah. Releasing the stress, releasing the grief. There's a lot of, and a lot of su different kinds of supplements. So that would be where I'd start looking. Yeah. That touches on the really important acknowledgement of how, we've talked about the heart cervix connection, but how profound the cervix really does respond to.

To love, whether it's with oneself, whether it's with a lover, like when it's it's almost like the cervix is attuned to the love energy and really responds and opens up to that love energy, whether it's from oneself or with a lover. And I know that the opu puncture point of the cervix is the heart, isn't it?

Yeah. I believe that it shares a channel. Yeah. I believe that it shares a channel. Yeah. For me, it's all about what we can do once we start elevating the energetics, the state of our body, our emotional energetics and how that actually has this effect on our sense our coherence so we can create a coherent state.

And this coherency allows, all, allows our body to move into these optimized have these optimal experiences. Yeah, it makes sense to me that, that love. This emotional. Peace is really allowing the cervix to relax and open because it's so multifaceted. Like it's multidimensional, it's it's chemical, it's nervous system. It's energetic. It's all of it, but the heart is at the center of it, and I'm now like really feeling into the possibility that the heart is the foundation of cervical orgasm. I'm really feeling into that. It's the, this heart energy that is a allowing for these.

These high, I'll just say the words, high frequency states of orgasm to occur. Because, yeah. I won't go any further into that. It's, no, that's, it's, that really, I think that, that succinctly encapsulates it, and I think it really reflects the work of self cervix and the courses you're now offering.

It's really exciting, that you're bringing this world. Yeah. And I wanna to the world go back to basics as well. I'll go back to basics. 'cause I do know that that is a next level conversation, so we'll be starting the self-service experience, I think, in a couple of months.

And so we start right back at the beginning again, and, we really get practical and we really Yeah. And then over time it just, sure, over time we start to pull in these more esoteric ideas and, they're esoteric ideas, but they're also, invitations to embody certain states of consciousness and energy that is a, that has a felt sense in the body once the body experiences that it knows.

Yeah. And to be honest, I think that I'm saying esoteric because I'm still very aware that this isn't necessarily respected by mainstream science. So I don't find it esoteric at all. If you start going into like quantum theory, it, it, it actually, you can find a lot of this based in science, but I know I guess what I'm trying to say it's. It's a less practical, we are not really having those conversations in the mainstream yet. I don't know if people are really ready for it, so I'm I need to, yeah, I'm gonna own that. I'm gonna stop apologizing for it and be like, yeah, this is cool.

It's actually the coolest thing. This is cool. Possibility that we can move sexual energy through magnetics, through electromagnetic fields is yeah. Tripping my mind out. Amazing. Yeah. That's so thrilling and exciting. I love that you're really following where the energy is taking you.

And I think that's just, yeah. Amazing. I think that's so wonderful. So Olivia, before we close off, I just wanna mention the Cervical Orgasm Research Project is collecting data on the experiences of cervical orgasms because no one else is doing it. I am imagining, it just must be amazing all of the firsthand experiences that people are sharing about their cervical orgasms.

But you are like collecting, you're collecting data on people's experiences of that. Yeah. Yeah. And actually your question to me was really interesting 'cause I, it, I'd like to talk to you after this about potential other questions, but yeah, I, it's been very validating having so many people write in and share their experience because, one hand, the medical world will say the cervical orgasm doesn't exist.

So it's very validating to have all of these yes testimonies and the testimonies range from more physical, emotion, physical experiences. All the way through to quite psychedelic experiences, seeing lights and, going through tunnels and, so it's, it is a range. And I'll always say this cervical orgasm is a spectrum.

And so it's been an amazing thing. One of the, I guess one of the main, to speak to your point before, one of the main continuing or like the, a theme is that love is, seems to be present in 95% of people. Wow. They're feeling love. Yes. Yes. So that also feels very validating to me.

Yeah. So I think that there's more that I can do in terms of asking, what are other, consistent things that have been present for you to have this experience love. Is one of them. Beautiful. Yeah. There's more to be done there. There's actually more to be done there and, yeah.

It's cool though. Cool. I really can't wait. The reason I'm creating, I'm kind trying to get these experiences because one day maybe there'll be a book and then there'll be lots of people, not just me sharing about, Yeah. Their experiences. Yeah. I think that needs to happen. Definitely it needs to happen.

For our listeners, the site is self cervix.com. There's a lot of free info. There's a lot of brilliant courses. There's a 12 month training that's gonna happen in 2024, which is very exciting. Olivia, thank you so much for joining us today. I love all that you shared and how, just how giving you've been in sharing your personal journey and evolution with me and everyone.

Thank you so much. You are welcome. Thank you so much for having me.

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Links to self cervix. Scientific research involving the cervix and the cervical orgasm project are all in the show notes. Every part of our body deserves to be listened to, honored and loved fully and deeply.

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