Sexual energy is your life force—the vital current that animates everything from creativity to connection, from confidence to deep pleasure.

Empowerment through sexual energy means:

• Removing the blocks that keep this energy locked, diminished, or distorted (shame, trauma, conditioning, armoring)
• Reclaiming full access to your body’s natural aliveness, sensation, and wisdom
• Learning to circulate and expand this energy consciously, so it nourishes your entire life—not just your sexuality

In practice, this looks like:

During sessions, you practice the art of receiving—being present to the sensations, emotions, and intuitive wisdom that arise when your body feels safe, seen, and honored. You’re not performing or achieving anything. You’re listening. Feeling. Allowing your own inner knowing to guide what wants to move, release, or awaken.

Everything you seek—pleasure, vitality, wholeness, ecstatic aliveness—already lives within you. This work simply clears the path so you can access it fully and let it inform how you show up in your relationships, your creativity, your sense of self.

First and foremost: trust your body’s knowing about safety. Whether you choose to work with a female or male practitioner, that felt sense of trust is non-negotiable. It’s the foundation for everything.

That said, many female clients find profound healing in working with a male practitioner they trust.

Here’s why:

If your past experiences with masculine energy have been unsafe, disrespecting, boundary-violating, or objectifying—whether through sexual trauma, dismissive partners, or simply living in a culture that conditions women to override their “no”—working with safe, attuned masculine presence can rewire those associations at a nervous system level.

When you experience a man who:

• Honors your boundaries as sacred
• Tracks your nervous system with deep presence
• Celebrates your empowerment rather than feeling threatened by it
• Holds space for your pleasure without agenda or expectation

…your body begins to learn: “Oh. This is what safe masculine energy feels like.”

That new reference point doesn’t just live in the session room. It changes how you move through the world—what you tolerate, what you expect, what you know you deserve.

This isn’t about needing male validation. It’s about reclaiming your right to safe, sacred relationship with masculine energy on your terms.

Yes.

One of the reasons I was drawn to the Sexological Bodyworker training at The Institute for the Advanced Study of Human Sexuality was in order to with all genders and self-identified sexualities.  Our universal life force energy is expressed through all forms, genders and orientations.

Wonderful.  This work honors and supports your partnership.

I’m here to help you access deeper intimacy within your relationship. Your partner is welcome to be involved in whatever way feels right for all parties, from simply being informed and supportive, to attending sessions together, to receiving their own individual work.

Here’s the paradox many couples face:

The very person you love most can inadvertently trigger the wounds, patterns, or nervous system responses you’re trying to heal. Your partner’s touch might activate old shame. Their desire might echo past pressure. Their presence might make it harder to access what your body actually needs, because you’re managing their experience alongside your own.

This is where skilled, neutral support becomes invaluable.

Working with a practitioner who has no personal stake in your dynamic creates space to:

• Release armoring and conditioning without fear of judgment or performance
• Discover what your body actually wants when you’re not caretaking someone else’s feelings
• Develop new somatic patterns and capacities that you can then bring back to your partnership

If you are partnered and seeking to expand together.

Deepening your erotic connection together is the very heart of Divine Union For Lovers – the sacred space my partner Ariel and I hold for couples and lovers.  Here we teach relational sexual attunement: the skills, practices, and presence that awaken expansive, ecstatic lovemaking and ever-deepening pleasure between you. Your individual work here restores your wholeness; Divine Union weaves that wholeness into the two of you as one. Explore Divine Union For Lovers →

The goal is always the same: you, more whole. Your partnership, more alive.

They are three distinct orders of work, not tiers of the same one:

Homecoming is awakening – coming home to your body’s agency and full erotic potential, learning its desires and how to give them voice. It is expansive, not trauma-focused.

Reclamation is healing – re-inhabiting the erotic life force that past trauma made unavailable, through genital de-armoring and the rewiring of arousal and pleasure with safety and agency.

Embodied Wholeness is foundational – rebuilding the imprints of pleasure, attachment, and intimacy from the ground up, from childhood on, tending the early relational ruptures that shape how you attach and receive. A deeper, developmental order of transformation that reaches all the way to the roots.

In our consultation, we’ll feel together which one your body is wanting and feels ready for.

Absolutely – and more than half of my clients are exactly you. You can receive your journey’s sessions in a concentrated immersion of a few days to two weeks. What makes an immersion last is everything around it: the online course and our Zoom and email connection prepare your body beforehand and, most importantly, accompany you home afterward, so the shifts integrate into your daily life instead of fading. For travelers, that support isn’t extra – it’s essential.

What makes immersions uniquely powerful:

• Your system can drop into deeper states when you’re not returning to routine distractions between sessions
• Multiple modalities can build and be woven together seamlessly across days
• Between sessions, Santa Monica offers beautiful beaches, hiking trails, and a rich wellness community -space to integrate, journal, rest, and let the work settle into your body for a unique retreat experience.

Most transformation unfolds over a journey of three to seven sessions – which is why the heart of my work is now offered as the Somatic Arc. Homecoming typically spans 3 sessions over a period of one to two months and awakens erotic wellness; Reclamation unfolds over 5 sessions during a two to four month period to resolve trauma and armoring; Embodied Wholeness integrates over 7 sessions spanning four to six months of spacious, comprehensive work.

Sessions can unfold weekly, bi-monthly, or in a concentrated immersion for those traveling to Los Angeles.

These are gentle rhythms, not deadlines – your body sets the pace.  For those coming in from out of town for immersives, we attune to what your body feels safe and ready for day to day and utilize the preparation and integration periods to ensure your new-found embodiment normalizes into your life at home.  If you’d like to begin with a single session before committing to a journey, you’re warmly welcome to.  

A single session begins at $2,500, reflecting its depth and length (sessions run three to five hours) and involves a complete intake of your developmental influences, history of patterns and current sexual embodiment, as well as supportive after-care.  The Somatic Arc journeys are a meaningful investment in a complete transformation, beginning at $6,666 – and together, we discuss your history, intentions, desires and what kind of container would best support your growth – and from there, the availability, support and investment involved.  Payment plans are available, and I hold a small number of reduced-fee places each year.

Having a clear intention as a guiding light and listening to your body’s innate wisdom usually leads to the greatest transformation for clients.  Attachment to a goal can often interfere with the natural flow of this process as this can impose an outside agenda (even if it’s from your own mind) onto the body.  It’s common for clients to share that their expansion in embodied pleasure, wholeness and transformative healing far exceeded what they first thought was possible.  As in all of life, what is possible is often beyond our imagination.