The 3 Keys to
Genital De-armoring
For Reclaiming & Expanding Pleasure
How to bring safety within the nervous system,
reclaim your body’s authentic sovereignty &
empower your sexual autonomy.
An Online Group Learning Education For All Bodies
Perfect for Seekers, Partners, and Professional Practitioners
Next Cohort: January, 14 – March 11, 2026
Discover the foundational principles and somatic practices of genital de-armoring from the comfort of your home. Designed for personal transformation, embodied pleasure and professional training.
What is Genital Armoring?
Genital armor is a common experience in most bodies. It’s a form of self-protection – your body’s organic response to guard itself.
We may develop genital armor when there is
- physical threat
- emotional threat such as shaming
- mental threat such as self-judgement
- or instances involving all three, such as repeated instances of sexual activity before proper foreplay.
The tissues and fascia holding onto chronic guarding patterns can lead to desensitization, discomfort, pain, tension, and numbness, until the armor is released.
No matter what your experience has been, your body’s innate intelligence knows how to release the armor when you are supported in the right ways.
In this live course, we explore the 3 keys to establishing a solid foundation for genital de-armoring to reclaim your body’s organic aliveness, connection and pleasure.
- First, how to bring safety within the nervous system – allowing the body to relish receiving touch.
- Second, how to reclaim the body’s authentic sovereignty through its voice and choice.
- Third, how to empower the body’s sexual autonomy through genital mapping.
The release of past guarding patterns from the tissues and fascia of the genitalia and pelvis restores sensitivity, aliveness, and your body’s organic healthy arousal & pleasure response.
Hi, I'm Rahi.
Certified Somatic Sex Educator & Genital
De-Armoring Specialist
For the past decade, I’ve been holding space to repair the ruptures affecting the safe embodiment of our sensual and sexual natures – from our developmental years, through adolescence, and into adulthood.
Amongst the wide variety of issues I’ve addressed in one-on-one sessions with hundreds of clients, a vast majority of them have involved genital de-armoring – the release of chronic guarding patterns, unexpressed emotions, and unintegrated experiences within the tissues and fascia of the genitalia leading to a desensitization to organic arousal and pleasure responses in the body.
I saw how pervasive a phenomenon this is for people of all ages and all walks of life – beyond what I can offer in one private practice. I want you to be empowered with these tools and knowledge about the natural wisdom and wonder of your body, and be able to move at your own pace and from the comfort and privacy of your own home, anywhere in the world.
“I felt that I was getting a state-of-the-art deep-dive from the best of the best in the field. I could feel Rahi’s love and excitement towards this work, which made it such a pleasure to learn from him. I have rarely felt so much respect from a teacher towards his students.”
Susanne Hillman, PhD. Sex, Love and Relationship Coach, Berlin, Germany
In this course you will ...
Restore your pleasure responses through an experiential, practical and effective approach
Address your whole being somatically via guided embodied meditations and video demos of genital mapping & de-armoring processes
Self-inquire into the conditioning that affects your adult intimacy behaviours and patterns
Have access to me and to group learning – realtime support via weekly live calls to integrate each module in a safe space/community
“Rahi created such a wonderful atmosphere of being held, of respect for the human body, of sexuality. I learned to be more loving with my body, with my own past and my traumas. I did a lot of emotional work on myself before, but genital de-armoring like Rahi teaches, took me many layers deeper.”
Amanda S., Somatic Sexologist & Sex Educator
What's included:
Video demonstrations of how to de-armor chronic tense, guarding and holding patterns within the vulva, vagina, and penis.
Video demonstrations of genital mapping as well as self-mapping.
Video demonstrations of how to explore the 11 erogenous zones, either solo or with a partner.
The 3 Keys to Genital De-armoring Workbook exploring the influences of our developmental years that have informed how we relate to our genitalia, touch, intimacy, and embodied sexuality as adults.
9 Weekly Live Zoom Calls with Rahi to build upon and integrate the lessons and practices of each module, and have all of your questions answered.
“This work is powerful, transformative and necessary.”
Deanna Noe, Somatic Sex Educator
Course Structure
MODULE 1
The Nervous System’s Sense of Safety for Receiving Touch
How your sexual responsiveness to pleasure is linked to the state of your nervous system
How unresolved issues and conflicts in relationships affect intimacy, arousal and pleasure states & receptivity
Explore and embody practices to down-regulate your nervous system inviting its receptivity to touch, arousal and pleasure before and during sexual intimacy
A guided somatic contemplation to provide a felt-sense of how the body opens up to or protects itself from emotions and sensations
Bonus Practice for partners to down-regulate their nervous systems before intimacy for greater pleasure, loving connection and openness.
MODULE 2
Autonomy and Sovereignty of the Body’s Voice and Choice
Examine your own intimate relationship with your body.
Recondition your body’s touch receptors to experience only what it desires.
Address unresolved traumas that your body is responding to unconsciously in relational intimacy.
Re-imprint your body’s voice with your desires and felt-sense experiences.
Explore your body’s 11 erogenous zones, either Solo or with a partner.
MODULE 3
Genital Mapping
Identify, understand and feel what each genital anatomical erogenous zone is designed to elicit in order to take ownership of your body and pleasure.
Understand how past conditioning has influenced your views, acceptance, judgements and experiences of your genitalia.
Explore a deeper, more intimate and connected relationship with your genitalia.
Learn how to map your genital anatomy (for vulva and penis owners) solo or with a practice partner.
MODULE 4
Genital Dearmouring
Understand each of the 4 Approaches to Genital De-armoring.
Explore how to combine Genital Mapping, Massage, and De-armoring so it can be a pleasurable, connecting and healing experience for you.
Understand how the de-armoring process mirrors your body’s nervous system down-regulation journey.
Learn how to de-armor your genitalia – solo or with a practice partner.
Explore guided self-de-armoring sessions.
How to Integrate after de-armoring sessions.
What Participants Are Saying
Meredith
“The course is a perfect complement to the Somatic Sex Educator / SexBod training – and I’m sure for other healing modalities. There is a wealth of high-quality information on the online portal, including many detailed and clear videos and demos, beautifully and mindfully presented. The weekly gatherings -whole group, breakout pods, and amazing invited speakers – were equally valuable. And I loved the sense of community Rahi fostered. I recommend it to practitioners, as well as anyone who wants to take a deep dive into learning about their own body and the many ways to access healing and pleasure.”
Aaron
“Through the course, I learned the understory of how to hold dearmouring – to allow the body the space to be where it is at, and give the touch that is needed for shifts to occur. The hands-on modules were incredible and I loved seeing Rahi work. The depth of his knowledge and experience were so present throughout, and the sense of deep caring around a person’s experience and return to sexual wholeness was so felt.”
Baiana
“I have sought healing through a number of modalities – traditional and alternative – over the past 25 years. I thought I had exhausted all options. Rahi’s approach to healing has given me new-found hope in my sexuality. I have already progressed significantly and I continue to revisit the course material, integrating something new each time. Rahi’s level of professionalism and authentic care is exceptional. Thank you thank you thank you!”
Your INvestMeNt
The 3 Keys to
Genital De-armoring For
Reclaiming & Expanding Pleasure
An Online Group Learning Education For All Bodies.
Next Group Learning Cohort:
Jan. 14 – March 11, 2026
9 Live Zoom Classes – every Wed. at 12 noon PST.
(All Zooms recorded for those unavailable to attend live)
Full Price
- Access to All Course Materials Immediately
2 Installments
Both payments by Feb. 1
For Couples
- Couples must share one email / zoom
Important Notice
All courses are educational and therapeutic in nature. We do not provide sexual services, explicit sexual content, or pornography. Content is designed for adult learners (strictly 18+ only) seeking personal development, somatic education, and relationship wellness. Refund Policy/Terms & Conditions/Privacy Policy
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FrequeNtly Asked QuestioNs
What if I can’t make the live calls?
All live call recordings will be available for anyone who cannot attend in person. You will also be encouraged to send me any questions you have before a call, so I can be sure to address them for you on the call.
I’m a Sexological Bodyworker - What will I learn?
The information in this course has been distilled from a variety of different nervous system re-regulation, sacred sexuality, and hands-on pelvic healing trainings, in addition to my background in developmental psychology. Specifically, there are elements of genital de-armoring, genital massage, how early childhood conditioning affects our adult sexual behavior and pleasure patterns, and how to increase blood flow to the genitalia that are drawn from outside the SexBod trainings.
I don’t have a partner. Can I do this course ?
This course is designed for all people, whether partnered or single. The video demonstrations of exploring the 11 erogenous zones and genital mapping for vulva and cock owners include how to experience them solo or partnered and the genital de-armoring videos for vulva and cock owners are accompanied by audio self-guided de-armoring sessions for those wanting to explore them with themselves.
I have a lot of trauma history with so much genital armor, I don’t know where to begin… Is this course still for me?
Although this course is intended for educational purposes and does not replace the experience of in-person therapy or hands-on sexological bodywork, it can be an informative and illuminating way to begin the journey of understanding how the body heals itself when given the safe space with the right support and practices. You are encouraged to move at your own pace, always understanding you are at full choice and consent to participate or not, in any practice, exercise or activity. Having said this, the 6 somatic contemplation exercises and video demos rely on the receiver inhabiting their body to a degree that they can identify and voice what it is their body is sensing and feeling.
If you still have concerns or specific questions, please feel free to reach out to me at Rahi@SomaticSexualWholeness.com
Is this course for any sexual orientation and gender identity?
Indeed, it is. This course is for everyone LGBTQ+++.
May I take this course with my partner?
Yes, you and your partner are most welcome to explore the course material, video demos and somatic sexual practices together, using one email and logging into the weekly zoom calls from one account.