Prostate Massage & Male Pleasure (with Stine Krage & Asim Sacredfire)
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In This Episode
We explore prostate massage and how it expands male pleasure, sensitivity, and sexual awareness. You’ll learn how the male body can access deeper forms of pleasure beyond conventional patterns.
About our Guests:
Stine’s background includes her experience as a Holistic body therapist, midwife & integral sexologist. She is passionate about supporting life changing transitions for human beings, embracing gender fluidity, transparency, tantra, dearmouring, core integrity, multiorgasmia and free sexual expression. A body therapist specializing in sexual health for all genders, and working with dermouring & healing sexual trauma, birth trauma & prostate health, she facilitates workshops and trainings around Europe. Stine is also trained in Kaula Tantra, ART/Authentic Relating, Rebirthing Breathwork, Acupuncture, TRE, Core Awareness and De Armouring Arts and is based in Denmark and Holland.
Asim’s background includes his experience as a Tantrik bodyworker, shamanic practitioner and energetic healer. Educated in Kaula Tantra, Core shamanism, Loomi Loomi massage, he is self taught in energetic healing and Tarot. Asim facilitates sessions, workshops and ceremonies in a blend of tantra, yoga and shamanism, in addition to expertise in de-armouring and energetic & chakra healing channeled through his intuition. Asim works from a base in Holland and Copenhagen.
What You’ll Learn About Prostate Massage & Male Pleasure
How somatic psychology, physiology, sexuality and tantra combine in The Prostatic Portal – serving as a holistic and complete exploration of the health, pleasure, and spiritual benefits of prostate massage.
How surrendering to receiving prostate massage – counter to the goal of doing – can be deeply healing, instructive, and revolutionary for men – transforming new expanses of pleasure, love-making, and relating.
How avoiding or denying anal pleasure and anal massage can be missing half of the pelvic pleasures available to the body due to the accessibility of pelvic nerves that is primarily available via internal pelvic palpation.
How prostate massage transforms the tissues that makes up the male prostate holding unintegrated issues and emotions relating to un-birthed dreams, purpose and intentions for prostate-owners.
How prostate massage increases blood flow, drains toxins, softens muscles & ligaments, shrinks enlarged prostates, and expands pleasure states, but first involves releasing the unintegrated emotional shadows and numbness also held here.
How the full-body experience of prostate orgasms via vagus nerve engagement, can be different from locally focussed genital orgasms via pudendal nerve engagement, and support separating orgasm from ejaculation.
How early conditioning about the anus being taboo to touch, dirty, or associated with homophobia can be resolved as one discovers the health, pleasure and spiritual benefits of embodying the prostate.
How stimulating the inner pelvis can bypass the involuntary ejaculatory response and lead to expanded states of pleasure supporting a shift from goal-oriented sex to orgasmic states of unlimited love-making.
How holding a safe and sacred space for prostate massage can be a deeply moving, intimate, and transformative experience for the space-holder in witnessing the deepest surrender.
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Welcome to your Body. Remembers pleasure. I'm your host, Rahi Chun. This podcast is devoted to sexual embodiment, intimacy, and the body's innate capacity to heal, feel, and remember pleasure. If something here resonates with you, you're welcome to explore more writings and resources@rahichun.com. And now let's begin. Today we explore the prosthetic portal with its co-creators and space holders, a same sacred fire and stina Raj. What if there's a safe and sacred practice for accessing, integrating and releasing emotional and energetic shadow aspects of the male psyche? And by doing so, not only increasing blood qi and energy flow, enlivening the innovation, health, and awareness of the entire pelvis, but also. Leading to expanded realms of pleasure, orgasmic states of surrender and the embodiment of our spiritual sexual nature. Today we explore how the prosthetic portal and prostate massage also called sacred spot massage, can conserve as a most effective and efficient practice for clearing one's shadow and repressed emotions. Deep healing of past traumas and expanding orgasmic states of pleasure and spirit. Today I am super excited to be inviting special guests to the podcast Asim Sacred Fire and Stina from, at the moment they're in Copenhagen, and they have co-created an incredible invitation called the Prosthetic Portal, which is an online event that anyone in the world can experience. But I feel like it's revolutionary because the prostate. And it's incredible gateway to spirituality, to energy, to trauma. Healing to pleasure is so not well known. So I'll just describe what it is here. The prosthetic portal, it's an online tantric training with a very holistic approach to explore and learn about the bliss and the shadows of the prostate. Drawing on the depths of wisdom from somatic psychology, physiology, energy, wisdom. Cultural traditions, including the wisdom of the chakras, the Nazis, Chinese medicine, tantra, just to name a few. It's incredibly holistic and a very complete exploration of the health, pleasure and spiritual benefits of engaging with the prostate. A same and stina. It's so wonderful to see you and to have you on the show. Thank you for inviting us, Rahi. Thank you, RA. Yes. So ST's background is as a midwife. She's a mother of three, a sexologist, a tantric and sexological body work therapist based in Copenhagen. A same sacred fire is a holistic tantric body worker using elements of shamanism, tantra, de arming, energetic and chakra healing, infused through his intuition. And he is based in Holland and Copenhagen as well. I think the first question, just to jump off would be. How did the prosthetic portal birth through the two of you guys? Like how did this come to be? It's so exciting. Yeah, so I think I would like to share that I was working a say tantric MA in Copenhagen and mostly only for men. The place was actually only for men and they offered the prostate massage as well. And I don't know, but all of a sudden all the clients I got was men having trouble ejaculating. And it was quite difficult to help them with this problem. Like premature ejaculation is more easy way of working around it. But this issue, and I looked everywhere. I asked whatever I knew to guide me, why can I learn more about this? And I really didn't find the information I needed, so I became a little bit nerdy. And I have the background as a midwife, so I'm very good with my fingers. It's for my two extra eyes. So really to feel the differences of all these prostates and patterns started to form like, okay, this is an issue. This is an issue. And everything like, like leading back to the prostate. And then oh, we both have a tantric teacher called an Rupa, who has taught us a lot of the tantric knowledge we have today, and he invited us to do online workshops in a place called it Tantric as part of the lockdown and like offering all these teachings online. We were like brainstorming what could be good. And I said I have all this knowledge about the prostate, maybe we could share that. And he thought that was quite a good idea. And then I was thinking about asking Anand if I should do it with him because I was, I'm not owning a prostate. So I also felt like bit of not too much integrity teaching this and not having one. And then Asim got a little bit. Why can't you do it with me? Yeah, sure. For me, we were, we didn't have a relationship that long, so it was also, there was a little bit of hesitation to work together, but I also felt okay, why don't we. Do that together then and see it as an exploration to find out also for ourselves what is the prosthe is about, because what was already sh sharing, there's not much knowledge out there. But by creating the prosthetic portal, we also, we went out to, in the look in the world from, okay, where can we find knowledge and what are the different approaches we can we can use in our, in the prosthetic portal. Yeah, as I was sharing, you guys really did such a deep dive. It really, it is like a PhD thesis, this, all the modules, all the information, the wisdom, really, you guys followed your curiosity and really took it upon yourselves to understand. The wisdom around prostate health from all these different traditions, Indian tradition of the chakra approach, the Chinese approach, like all of these different traditions. And it's fascinating what you've discovered. There's so much complimentary understanding, but you've honed it into one place. It's beautiful. I am very curious. I wanted to ask you, Asim, what your personal journey has been. In discovering. The sacredness of your prostate, because I think there are a lot of listeners who are men or maybe wives or lovers of men who have been curious, who've heard about prostate massage, but maybe haven't really explored it. And, once upon a time I'm wondering whether you or someone who knew about it but didn't really explore it and what has your journey been like? Yeah, I had explored already some, a little bit of anal play, but for me also the prostate was, yeah okay, it is a male organ somewhere, but I don't know where. I had, yeah. Some little experience with prostate massage before we started this project. And for me, discovery of the prostate was really Yeah, an eye-opener of how to experience pleasure because it's, it gives a pleasure which is very different than a penile. Stimulation that you have to go much more into a surrendering. And when you have a pleasure from the surrendering, it's very different and very much more opening up and without a goal. And that really helped me also to few. My pleasure in having sex that after the discovery of that, the possibility to have pleasure in a surrender that it completely changed the way of lovemaking, even if didn't involve anal play or prostate massage. Wow, there's so many beautiful things you're sharing there. What I'm hearing is opening yourself up to this receptive, surrendering state, really getting in touch with your inner feminine as a sexual being and expanding your whole capacity as a sexual being to one of wholeness. Really. I really feel like. Anal play and anal pleasure is so neglected in our society. It's almost like missing half the pelvis, much less prostate pleasure. And so yeah, opening yourself up to the whole embodiment of who you are both energetically. Inner feminine, inner masculine wise, as well as just feeling good. I think it's just a sacred journey that is inviting all prostate holders. Stina, I'm really curious because you shared how you started by giving tantric prostate massage for men. I'm guessing you've witnessed such incredible. Awakenings transformations like discoveries amongst the clients who've never had a prostate massage before. For our listeners who've never had prostate massage before, what really stands out in what you've witnessed in, in holding space for this sacred experience? Before answering that, I was just actually laughing a little bit. When you say half of the pelvis is missing, because that's also sometimes like guys would come, why would I want a finger up my butt? What is it? And it was like you're missing out maybe of half of your sexual potential because like with women, we have an access to get to all these nerve endings and all these pressure spots that you really can reach the same way in a man. So that can be a bit provocative, of course, to say that, but yeah, I had men in their fifties cry with grief, like, why didn't I know about this sooner? This is so different experience for me. Yeah. Like deep transformation and what I also sometimes see, like being a sexology working with men and pleasure is that so many men need to feel pleasure through another's pleasure. Like the indirect root of pleasure is the most common way. For many men to get, feel pressure, and this is surrender. So this is not through somebody else's direct pleasure. So that transformation of actually, they don't have to perform, they don't have to do anything. They just have to surrender and receive. The prostate has such an invitation for that. If you can get past all, the fear, anxiety around it and really try it. So I think that was the, maybe the biggest game changer for the men was to like, wow, I can feel this much pleasure just receiving, without performing, without having an erection. So many men usually won't have an erection during a prostate massage, but they still feel all this pleasure. So it's also do not commute. Do not commute, that there's so much confusion in the moment, and then afterwards it's wow. This is so different. Yeah. Yeah. Profound and beautiful. All those points are really striking to, to hear it because I've experienced prostate massage and pleasure, but I didn't realize how the performance aspect is really not there that a lot of men feel during sexuality. Yeah. My I feel like. Like the way em was speaking about how it made him a better lover. I feel like it helped my body understand how vulnerable it feels to be penetrated and gave me a whole different empathic understanding of the vulnerability of that. I wanna ask both of you, I feel like it's really profound in your training how you impart. The understanding of how the womb tissue or the tissue of the uterus in the womb is the same tissue that makes up the prostate. And so there are all these issues within the male that shows up in the prostate of not birthing dreams, goals, visions, businesses et cetera. Can you speak a little bit about. The significance of how that womb tissue in the female body is similar to the prostate tissue in a man. And the significance of that as far as what kind of trauma or unexpressed energy gets held there. Should I talk earlier? Can you start, so of course I have a bit more the physiological, like scientific approach. Assume is very strong in the more spiritual, energetic part, and then we meet somewhere there. The prostate is actually much more complex organ than uterus. Like it has so many different functions and it's a muscle as the uterus is also a muscle. It's making this contraction to, repel the ejaculate from the prostate. And at the same time it's a filter. It is a chamber, it's a it takes away the toxins. It's mixing all these different fluids, so it has so many. But what I find is the most common thing between the two is the way it's wired to nerves, and especially the vagus nerve. For me, the vagus nerve is the energetic superhighway, the una in like in the more holistic approaches, and it is really what makes energy flow more freely in the whole body, connected to all the organs and things like that. And I think that is very much why men experience this much more deeper orgasm. The full body orgasm is because they're connected. The vagus nerve. So that was shown in studies that the uterus cervix is connected to the vagus nerve. It has still not been proven for men, but I totally believe that these wiring is very similar. Yes, the prostate is the same material as the boom, and it is the, so the prostate is the organ of life in the man, and so everything that is related to life. Or the goals that you have in life, every problem that you have related to that will have its a backlash on that. So if you are, in your twenties and you're studying and you make your goals from, ah, I'm gonna make this in life, I'm gonna do this, I'm gonna be that. And this is how my future's gonna be. And then later on in life, you have to reevaluate and okay what of those goals did I reach and which ones I didn't? And if you then, if you were very attached to those goals, that's, it's like a trauma. Connected to that organ in the prostate. So all the promises that you have made yourself that you, how you are gonna be if that is not fulfilled. And if you are not, come clean with yourself. And if you can't say okay, I was young, I had those dreams, now I'm older and wiser and I rescheduling my life. I'm just make new goals. And I'm fine with that, and then you can let that go. But yeah if people feel like, oh, I didn't accomplish it, I didn't accomplish it, then that is a trauma that is sticking to the prostate. But there's also that when you're later in life also physiologically there's there are changes. Yeah. And that's also a part of a lot of the health problem in the prostate is that especially. Like the, maybe the 56 years generation, they've been working so hard. Like they really need to be somebody, you need to have a good job. You need to have a big car, you need to push through. You have very stressful lives. And when we have very stressful life and we need all this materialism to feel safe in our life, and maybe it goes away, we lose money, we lose the job, we lose the car. We have so much tightness in our roots. Like we just, we just pull the buttocks together and we keep going. So a lot of prostates are completely suffocating in this pelvic space because it's so tight. The muscle, there's so much, and you also know this from the spinsters and the whole Veda, Amy is so tight. It's the same for men and women that, that it can really help all the toxins in area. There's not enough blood flow, like all these things. And then there's the whole thing, like everything that is stored in our root is usually the deepest, the darkest. The most difficult emotions, experiences, trauma. They live in the pelvic. It's really the root of our existence. And when you Google prostate, the first hit you get is cancer. That's what, that's when people start to relate to their prostate is when it gets sick. And that is, it's far, the forest away from the head, from the mind is the opposite side of the eyes, so it's the darkest corner of the male body and so there is not much attention there and so everything that's wants not to be found will be hidden there. As was Stein was saying, everything that's related to the lower chakras is stored there. So all the issues you have with life, all the issues with money, all the issues with sex, it's all in that region. And if you don't get clear about it, how do you feel about it and be truthful to yourself about it? It'll have an influence on that region. So what you guys are speaking to, there's so many facets of the prostate you're speaking to. There's the physiological, as you said, stina, the filter where it's, it is filtering the toxins, environmental toxins, a same what you're speaking to is, it's it's also filtering the emotional toxins, of a man's life, of a man's dream, of a man's vision and self identity of how he perceives himself and. Yeah, the fact that it is in this very vulnerable place, I'd say the most vulnerable part of the body, deep within the pelvis. And so it is very susceptible to so many of the stresses and influences that you've both shared. It's no surprise that, I think prostate cancers like the number one or number two killer of men, at least here in the States. Yes. I would like to, I, I just love how you are, recognize how you both understand all the different ways the prostate is affected, spiritually, energetically, emotionally, physiologically. It's just so complete, such a complete understanding. I wanna shift gears a little bit and ask you guys. About the prostate massage itself that you facilitate for your clients and for your online training. Something that really stood out to me is how you really hold it as a sacred and safe ritual. There's a lot of intentionality. There's a shared meditation in the beginning. There's such reverence and awareness throughout the whole process. I'd love to know how. Yeah. How your approach to the prostate massage evolved. Was it always so sacred, or did you learn along the way? Because I love how you guys facilitate that. So I guess in the beginning, what I did it, it was like usually at the end of a massage, and it was mostly, a lot of them came for like the drainage, like the blood flow, removing the toxins. So that's more like a physiological. Prostate massage, like massaging the area, softening up all the muscle, the ligaments, holding the prostate, actually relieving a lot of lower back pain doing that, and you're not really making a lot of blood flow. When you massage the pressure, you feel like an intense heat and you feel pulsation in the area quite fast, and that's really helpful. So with men in for enlargement of prostate. Oh yeah, for two, three days after a massage, I don't need to get up pee like three times a night, maybe only one time. So there's like the health benefit of that kind of massage. And then of course then there were the guys that are completely healthy prostate, but just was really curious about, so what is this that talking about the male G spot, I'm really curious to explore. And then that way it was more like the orgasmic thing, but also the reason why we call it the prosthetic portal. Just because, yes, it's a portal to Multiorgasmic experience, but it's also actually you need to sometimes go through a lot of shadows portals, like to face your, basically your ship the emotional, the traumas, all the blockages you have there before you can have access to that multiorgasmic experience. So it had many different assets, different purposes to do the prostate massage. So that's what we try to do. The training is a physiological one, and then we do an energetic one. It's very much about ruining blockages ing the prostate, and then more like the orgasmic one where we really, teach a lot about the pleasures. And then at the end, it's the spiritual one because we put it into the ceremonial context. That really makes it sacred and make it safe for me, the sacredness is to make this really vulnerable space safe for men to go there. So deep. The prostate massage is especially when you do it for the first time, receive it for the first time. It doesn't have to be ple. A lot of the times that's, there's still a lot of tension. There's a lot of things going on that, that are in the way of the pleasure. So first, all the shadows have to be be seen and have to be released before you can get to that pleasure. Sometimes the first time it's not pleasurable for the men, and then it's only a healing, and sometimes it's also just numb. I don't feel you're touching anything right now. I feel like being, that's it. There's simply no connection. So first that the connection has to be established to use the sacredness and rituals is is really about creating a space a safe space where things can happen. And it's not so much about giving a pleasurable massage. It is creating a space where things can happen that need to, needs to happen. Also when I am giving body work, actually my goal is not to give pleasure. What my goal is to give a healing. So then I am using the massage to get. Flood flow to get the energy flow and then that, that what needs to happen can happen for that. I also need a certain sacred space as a container for that. In our sexological body worker training, we were taught that the prostate and the g-spot in, in female bodies is made up of a certain crystalline structure of condensed tissue that's known to hold past traumas. And so what you're speaking to is the necessity of really clearing all of that baggage essentially in order. For the aliveness and the pleasure to be experienced. But it's such a, I always see like whether it's g spot, sacred spot massage with the G spot or the prostate as like the most efficient and effective way of releasing our past trauma and baggage because we know that's, it's designed to hold that and at the same time it's available for such incredible. Orgasmic states that it's just a goldmine that is waiting to be discovered. I wanted to ask you guys could you speak a little bit about prostate massage that includes genital pleasure? Versus prostate massage that is non genital pleasure. Because in the material that I've seen some prostate massage articles that don't really talk about genital pleasure. And in my experience with the clients I've worked with around prostate massage and myself, I find that there's so much more. As you've mentioned, blood flow, energy flow, and more accessibility to both trauma release and pleasure when the nerves that are involved with the genitalia are involved. But I'd love to hear do you see pros and cons to including the genital pleasure with prostate massage or any cons? No, I see I see a pro in a way that you can relax the body by using genital massage because it's like getting the attention a little bit away from. The penetration of the of the swing system and the attention away from the prostate. And in that way there can be some more relaxation because the the key in the prostate massage is relaxation. Even in, in attempts to get there, you have to pass two spinsters of the anal spinsters. And they need to relax. In order to come to that hidden gem, which is the prostate and to get there genital touch can be very useful to, to get the attention a little bit away and also the contraction. That is some pleasure in that way. There comes also a little bit relaxation how I see it very much with this first time you wanna awaken. The prostate it's also linked to the penial nerves, and then that's also linked to the vagus nerve, I believe. So it's very much like the neoplasma theory. So if one pleasure sensation and you combine it with another, the brain start to make new pathways of. So in that sense it can be very good to stimulate what is usually felt less pressure. At the same time as the prostate. It awakens the area a little bit more and then you can go more, only the prostate and then they feel a little bit, and then you can support with a little bit of genital massage pressure. To enhance that feeling. And of course, also, so the pudendal nerve goes all the way, of course to the gland, the head of the penis. But it's also completely covering the whole pum around the sters. So hold this whole area between the testes and the anus, that area has so much pressure potential as well. And it's also actually possible to do an external first time massage through that, that that area. So we actually in the massages, we do, and we teach, we do a lot of pleasure massage in that area. Relaxation, and we actually do a lot of massage of what we call the anal lips. So the sters we really wanna make the, it's so receptive. Before even penetrating. So it's such a big part of the whole ritual of getting to the prostate. It's a really big buildup. And if, when we work with the orga prostate massage, yes, we use the massage, like a throttle, like speeding up the, okay, we wanna have a little bit more sexual energy in it. Let's make a bit more sexual energy. And then I stop with the genital massage and then I move it to the prostate awakens, and then it moves up. So yes, thank you. Be very much used. For many different purposes I'm hearing. Yeah, Asim said, so there's a really huge benefit and support in relaxing the whole pelvic floor relaxing the sphincters, which is really key, increasing the blood flow. And I'm hearing from you Stina, the importance of engaging the nerves through the genitalia that also innervate the anal sphincters and the prostate. There's so many. So many great reasons as well as, creating new neural pathways, associations of pleasure in the body with touch to the anal area where perhaps neural pathways have never been established before. This is so terrific. I do wanna underscore for listeners. This is nothing like a doctor's prostate exam. So I think one of the fears people have, like men especially, is we do not like to go get our prostates examed at doctors. Yeah. And that's why I wanna emphasize like, I love how you guys create a ritual. The safe space is so important and you're really listening to when the body's ready to receive a finger or to be penetrated, and it's really, it is, I forget what term you used. I remember reading something about, I don't know if it was anal sucking or, but you're really letting the prostate and the sphincters guide the process which makes it so safe. Yeah. And also another thing we are always talking to a lot is a lot of guys are actually very worried about the poo. Will it smell, will it be dirty? Will it be like, what is gonna happen? So whenever I give a newbie a prostate massage, I just talk into it right away. So I'm wearing a glove, I'm having a lot of oil on my finger. Nothing's gonna stick. It's not gonna smell like all these things. But it's, it is really a blockage, a mental blockage for many, all these worries. Yeah. Yeah. Because for men, we are taught from early age. Who is dirty. Don't touch it. Don't touch this. Don't touch your ass. Don't and especially, don't put your finger there. Come on. Are you gay? Are you gay? So there are, so from early on that is what is. Hammered into you. So first you have also have to get past those conditionings. Yeah. To go there. We did a group ceremonies and we give sessions one-on-one on with people, but we also do it in a group setting. People were not wanting to come until we made it very clear that you're gonna lay all with the heads towards each other in a star shape with the ass towards the wall. Nobody can see your ass. That is actually making it more comfortable to be able to, okay, then I can, maybe I can do it, then I can relax. The most important thing is for men to, to receive it is that they are relaxed, that they can relax in it. Otherwise they can't they can't receive it. There are so many mental barriers to move through before we even get to the physical conditioning, but I feel like you guys are aware in addressing each of these things. I do wanna mention, like I know when you guys do the online training people. It can be anywhere, and it's in the privacy of their own home, the safety of their own bedroom, and that the cameras, the Zoom camera is turned off so that there's complete privacy whilst you guys are facilitating this incredibly sacred and healing and pleasurable process. I, I wanna mention at this point the prosthetic portal. What is the website where people can go and find out more about either your Zoom online facilitation or in-person facilitations? Yeah, so we actually have the prosthetic portal.com. We also have a Facebook called the Prosthetic Portal, and my private one is am and you are. Asim, sacred Fire nl. So we have all those websites. But it's prosthetic portal.com and then you'll find us. Yes. So I will have all these links in the show notes on the podcast page. I wanna ask you, in my journey of separating orgasm with ejaculation edging is always fun, but I gotta say it was. Pro self prostate massage and the intensity of that experience that helped me understand how to separate ejaculation for or from orgasm. I remember having this incredible like full body orgasm where, I just disappeared. I wanted to ask the role that prostate. Massage plays in helping people separate orgasm from ejaculation. For me, it was really important, but I don't know if that's the case for most men I can speak for myself. That just for me, I didn't find a need to ejaculate. All the time, every time that I had sex. But it really helped me to move from a goal orientated sex experience into a more flowy, enjoyment centered. Sex experience to go more into the surrendering but also to have your lovemaking as a enjoyable time. Instead of that you have this goal that you have to reach in the end. That's really has changed it for me. Yeah. Yeah. So my experience is like very much like when you do the genital massage on the lingham, the penis, you're so much stimulating the, at the end of the P nerve that is eventually gonna send signal to all the muscle helping with contraction and all that. So it's so closely linked and wired, but when you go inside the body. And you stimulate the nerve pathways there, the energy connecting it with pleasure and a lot, we do a lot of breath work well with all this, like really moving the energy, the whole, it's just bypassing the ejaculating response. It's simply not there anymore. They usually, there's no erection. They don't, they do feel pressure if they still have a stimulation of lingham, but still it's just completely bypassed. And that's the eyeopener for, they are like, why am I not having erection? I'm feeling like I've been having like sex forever. Or what? What is this? And then it's just moving the energy up inside the body instead of wanting to shoot the energy out of the body. In the lovemaking of men. A lot of the time it is it is goal orientated, but also when you can have love making that you you don't want to go to your goal because you want to extend the time that you are having your lovemaking. So then you start to. The goal out of it, then you move to a new goal That is to give your partner pleasure, but in that way you keep controlling all the time. And so you're controlling your own pleasure that you don't get too much pleasure, that you can ejaculate. And also you try to control like, oh, what am I doing? Is she liking it? Is she not liking it? So you're in a controlling mode all the time. And with a prostate massage. You cannot, you have to surrender and to have that surrender and then receiving that pleasure without doing, without having to do anything, that is the real eyeopener. As you're sharing this, I can really, see how, there's so many lessons to be learned from the surrender to these orgasmic states in all areas of our life including spiritually. But what I'm hearing is that rather than the kind of the typical or stereotypical male. Directive, goal oriented sexual quest. It is really more about surrendering to orgasmic states of being and an orgasmic way of being really, and a relational love making where there is no goal, there is just continual sharing of these orgasmic lovemaking. It's beautiful. There's so many reasons for us to. Become familiar, become friendly, to really become intimate with our prostates. Just all the reasons in the world, from health to spirituality, to trauma release, to love making, to the lessons that it's waiting to teach us. I'm really curious guys what's your intention and hope in creating the prosthetic portal? And I know it's evolving still but you have the live online trainings. You guys have like on demand requests. I know you've been teaching at festivals all over Europe. What is, what's your hope and intention for this? Prostate revolution. I think we wrote it in the description. It's really right. Like really raising this awareness that prostate is not only related to cancer and diseases and dysfunctions and all this, but, and it's such a vital, just like you're saying, it's such a vital part of men's health, both sexual health, but because it has all these functions, it's such a vital little organ that nobody knows about. So really create more awareness around this and also just, offer a space for men to explore this sacred sexuality, higher connections, alter states of mind and really get past all the homophobic, fears around this. This is preventing it from being explored. And also what what I've seen as a gift that was maybe also had a deep impact on me in the ceremonies we'd be doing is the givers. Usually it has been women, it's also been men, but usually it's been women giving their lover, boyfriend, husband this experience. And they were so honored and they were so moved. To really witness and hold this vulnerable space for their loved one that was really creating such a deep connection between them that was so beautiful to witness. Like really just allow us to be in our feminine and masculine no matter what gender physiological we are. That this is just a normal part of having a healthy sexual experience in life. Yeah. And for me, it's, it is raising the awareness and to have to show and tell other men okay, you have this organ inside you. And be aware of it because both health wise, but also pleasure wise. And also in that region, there are a lot of shadows. And for me that is also a big reason to work with it, is to shine light on those shadow on shadows in order that you can grow. And prostate is really a spot in the middle body, which has so much potential. And when you are ready to look into your demons and to look into your shadows and release them. Then you are also able to go really high spiritually and experience altered stage of consciousness, which I think are only possible because you have released those shadows. Yeah, it's incredible. I'm, I am a little kind of dumbfounded that there isn't more awareness around this incredible gateway, and so I'm so grateful that you guys are holding the space for it. I really think that this. This should be part of the sex education that everyone, that teenagers should receive. It's such, for health reasons, for as you say to look at our shadows to, for empowerment reasons, for pleasure, reasons for love making, like all of it. And it's so integrate. It's so integrates our inner feminine and inner masculine by inviting this experience of surrender and receiving. Guys I am so grateful that you guys have created this, the prosthetic portal.com, and I will have all your links in the show notes. Thank you so much for being the sacred gatekeepers to this incredible wisdom and incredible access to our wholeness and our real, integrated embodiment. It's great to see you both and I look forward to seeing you soon. Yes. Thank you. So I thank you looking very much forward to see you Denmark. Notice how this interview is landing in your body right now. What sensations are you aware of? Are there any feelings or curiosities arising about your prostate or perhaps about the prostate of your lover or a close friend if you have a prostate, can you feel into what may be awaiting you? Perhaps unexplored discoveries. Self connection and self intimacy, and a sense of empowerment of your whole being, inviting you to discover what's truly possible. And if you're a lover or close friend of a prostate owner, can you imagine the experience of holding? A safe and sacred place for their deepest and most vulnerable connection for resolving their shadows and touching into new realms of orgasmic bliss and wholeness. Links to the prosthetic portal.com and amma.com and sacred fire.nl stina and asims respective websites. Can be found in the show notes. Here's to the healthy integration of all of who we are and all of what we embody, and to the deepest embodiment of our bodies, most precious and sacred treasures. Thank you for listening to Your Body. Remembers Pleasure If this conversation supported you, the simple way to help this work reach more people is to leave a five star rating or a brief review. You'll also find more resources and teachings@rahichun.com. Until next time, take good care.
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