Relational Skills For Deep Sensual Connection, Extended Lovemaking, and Pleasure-based Healing
A Self-Paced Online Education OR with 3 Zoom Calls for Tailored Guidance Specific to Your Needs OR with In-Person Retreat with Ariel & Rahi
Do you desire intimate connection where you feel seen, heard, and met?
Do you desire to learn the secrets to extended lovemaking?
Do you desire to learn practices for embodied healing & wholeness?
This thorough and in-depth educational course supports you to cultivate the relational skills necessary for Divine Union and shares a wealth of valuable guidance, video demos, and trauma-informed touch practices for ecstatic connection and extended lovemaking.
Drawing upon a rich menu of embodied practices from the fields of somatic education, sexological bodywork, and tantra…
Explore practices in communication, vulnerability, shadow work, trauma resolution, and the use of extended states of aliveness to expand & heal.
A union rooted in interdependence that satiates our primal need and desire for connection and aliveness.
A union that occurs when two souls intertwine, each in their wholeness, with transparency and vulnerability in service to love.
A transformative merging of energy supported through extended states of aliveness – where Vital Qi energy invites altered states of consciousness for healing and expansion.
“Rahi and Ariel are a
sex therapy dream team”
Rick & Lucia G.
Course Contents
6 Modules including
The 8 Pillars of Intimacy & Consensual Relating
Nervous System Correlations to Intimacy and Connection
Channelling Life Force Energy for Resolving Wounds
One-way Touch Demos and Practices to Expand Sensory Awareness
Unlocking Your Sensory Potential Without Penetration
Edging and Tuning Into Subtle Sensations for Extended Lovemaking
Goal-Oriented Intimacy vs Conscious & Connected Meditative Lovemaking
Surrendering Into the Mysteries of Your Alchemical Union
Optional Tailored Guidance & Live Access with Ariel & Rahi via Zoom Calls and/or Live In-Person Retreats
Receive support & guidance specific to your needs, histories, and desires.
Bonus Practices
Tantric Breathing Exercises to Expand Sexual Energy
Taoist Practice for Circulating Life Force Energies
Exercises for Attuning to Exactly What The Body Wants and Does Not Want
Maximizing Health & Wellness for Extended Lovemaking
Guidance for All Genders over 40
How to Release Tension From Pelvic Floor Muscles
Each of 6 educational modules build upon the others to cultivate the relational intimacy and trust necessary for experiencing ecstatic connection, practicing extended lovemaking, and creating a relational container for divine union.
“Rahi and Ariel are a sex therapy dream team. Rahi is passionate about his craft, yet also kind, gentle, and reassuring. Rahi made us feel safe in ways that I never knew I deserved, and his continued, gentle guidance sets us at ease as we go on our journey. Ariel is knowledgeable, yet never imposing. She is like a companion who has walked the road before us, and eager to point the way. We feel very comforted by her gentle presence!”
Rick & Lucia G.
You’ll Receive Video Demos & Guidance on:
Sensual practices for slowing down, pausing, and tuning in
Genital Mapping for All Bodies
Exploring the 11 erogenous zones
Expanding Ecstatic Energy
Non-Penetrative Ways to Experience More Pleasure
Ancient Taoist and Tantric techniques to circulate Life Force energy
“Ariel and Rahi’s facilitation was a perfect blend of very high level skill and expertise, and a beautifully tender and inviting container. The tantric weaving between their energies was effortless. I felt deeply held in their presence from start to finish that energetically opened me in ways that no other ceremony ever had before. Their solid presence guided us into a deep self-inquiry, an exploration that helped me touch upon one of my core issues in relationships – trust. I was able to meet that part of myself in the loving arms of my partner and allow my inner child to experience healthy co-regulation because of this impeccably held container.”
Lana K.
You’ll Learn How To …
Create a new and expanded sex life with your short- or long-term partner
Build trust and safety within yourself and in the space between you
Set a container for divine union where you both feel seen, heard, and met
Attune to what you and your partner truly desire
Deepen your skills in both giving and receiving touch
Use pleasure to heal old wounds, grief, and shame
Transform old patterns and relational dynamics
Practice intimacy as a form of meditation
Rahi Chun
Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, and Creator of Somatic Sexual Wholeness
Rahi’s offering, Somatic Sexual Wholeness, developed organically as a body of work holding space for repairing ruptures within the evolution of our sexual embodiment sequentially – first addressing developmental wounds, then boundary violations during adolescence, before resolving those in the pelvic bowl from adulthood.
By following his curiosity about the diverse approaches to releasing chronic guarding patterns from the tissues and fascia of the genitalia, he developed an expertise in the field of genital dearmouring and teaches it online via his signature course, “The 3 Keys to Genital Dearmouring for Expanding and Reclaiming Pleasure” and in workshops and retreats worldwide.
He is trained and certified in a variety of touch-based sexual and non-sexual healing modalities such as Neuroaffective Touch, Dearmouring Arts, the Taoist practices of Chi Nei Tsang and Karsai Nei Tsang, TRE, the Wheel of Consent and Sexological Bodywork. His Master’s in Psychology involved a particular interest in understanding how our initial touch imprints from childhood and adolescence influence our adult sexual intimacy patterns, behaviors, and experiences.
He currently offers 1:1 & couples sessions, as well as retreats & workshops in Santa Monica, California and worldwide.
Ariel Szabo
Somatic Sex Educator, Sexological Bodyworker, Psychedelic Therapist, and Creator of Sacred MoonFlower
Ariel is a sacred sexuality practitioner and somatic psychedelic therapist. She works with pleasure and plants to guide individuals and couples back to their bodies, into ecstatic connection, and toward fully embodied, soul-led living.
Her approach blends the sacred arts of sexual awakening, relational healing, and nervous system repair—rooted in her own journey from numbness and disconnection to living an orgasmic, embodied life. Ariel holds space with reverence, deep attunement, and trust in the body’s innate wisdom to heal, awaken, and transform.
She weaves together years of study with plant medicines and Indigenous wisdom keepers in Peru alongside her training in somatic sex education, sexological bodywork, and psychedelic therapy.
Her work is devoted to restoring eros as a source of vitality, belonging, and remembrance.
Ariel currently offers 1:1 and couples sessions, ceremonies, and immersive experiences in Santa Monica, California, and facilitates plant medicine retreats in Peru.
“I attended Rahi and Ariel’s event and was deeply changed. My girlfriend and I went to a deep vulnerable place where we did amazing work. As a clinical psychologist, I understand the importance of the space-holder to create a safe place for people to go deep. Rahi and Ariel did just that. My partner and I did some profound healing around our inner children and there were concrete take-aways that we have been practicing. I highly recommend their workshops!”
Dr. John H., PhD
Move at your own pace and in the privacy of your own space with optional tiers of contact and guidance with Ariel & Rahi
Self-Paced Online
- Move at your own pace in the privacy of your own home based on your own rhythms
- or consider Tailored Guidance with Zoom Calls or Tailored Hands-On Guidance in Live Retreats
Tailored Virtual Guidance
Move at your own pace in the privacy of your own home based on your own rhythms
PLUS: 3 tailored guidance 60-min. zoom sessions with either Ariel or Rahi included.
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Tailored In-Person Guidance
Move at your own pace in the privacy of your own home based on your own rhythms
3 x 2:2 tailored guidance 60-min. zoom sessions with both Ariel & Rahi
PLUS: 3 x 2:2 In-Person Sessions with both Ariel & Rahi holding space for your Divine Union
All courses are educational and therapeutic in nature. We do not provide sexual services, explicit sexual content, or pornography. Content is designed for adult learners (strictly 18+ only) seeking personal development, somatic education, and relationship wellness. Refund Policy/Terms & Conditions/Privacy Policy
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Frequently Asked Questions
I’ve explored tantra already, what’s different about this course?
This course is a unique interweaving of wisdom and disciplines from many influences beyond tantra, such as trauma-informed touch, containers that understand the role the nervous system plays in sexual arousal, taoist practices for extended love-making, one-way touch and whole body/genital mapping from somatic sex education, and our own unique experiences for cultivating an environment for erotic alchemy to transform consciousness. We’ve curated the best of the best and are sharing from a place of lived practice and devotional service.
Can individuals take this or do I have to be in a couple?
Divine Union is designed to enrich and expand both individuals and lovers. There will be different benefits taking it individually or with a partner, as the exercises and practices we share involve working with a partner – either one’s beloved or a practice partner/trusted friend. Taking the course as an individual would be a rich experience in preparation for Divine Union, and the material could then be returned to with a lover for a new experience.
Is this course appropriate for practitioners?
This course is designed for both couples and professionals alike. For professionals, whether fellow somatic sex educators, couples therapists, or MFTs, the wide array of intimacy and extended love-making practices would provide an entirely new toolbox with which to serve your clients. Additionally, the trauma-informed approaches would benefit a wide range of clients at different stages of embodiment.
Is this LGBQT friendly?
Divine Union speaks to the spiritual, energetic, sexual, emotional, mental and cosmic connection available to ALL beings, and we have endeavored to create a course that is mindful of all bodies, sexual orientations and identities. In module 4, we share practices from our own experiences as a vulva- and penis-owner – as a jumping off point for you to discover what works for your body and genital configurations. When we speak about vaginal penetration, we are referring to penetration with a penis or finger/s. We also recognize that for a great majority of queer folx – non-penetrative lovemaking is not a novel idea or practice. However, we believe that all lovers can benefit from learning how to slow down to discover what else is possible, beyond what you’ve already experienced. To deepen skills in self-attunement, as well as benefit from knowledge on the nervous system’s correlations to sexual patterns and responsiveness, one-way touch practices, and using sexual energy to heal past wounds and expand consciousness.
Is this course for non-monogamous couples or erotic friends?
Yes. This course is specifically called Divine Union “for Lovers” because lovers can come in all kinds of relational configurations. And whether you have one lover or many lovers, there is always something sacred to hold between the unique union of any set of lovers coming together.
Is there a live retreat for my lover and I to explore these practices in-person with your guidance?
Yes. Divine Union For Lovers Live is being held in Santa Monica, CA between August 1-3 and again from September 19-21. All details and application can be found here: tba
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