Why Does Sex Feel Like a Performance?
Sex feels like a performance because we learned it as a task with a finish line. Chasing intensity produces less sensation. Slowing down restores it.
Why Do I Feel Shame After Sex?
Shame after sex is usually an old pairing replaying: arousal and shame wired together early. Uncoupling them is somatic work, not willpower.
Erotic Reclamation: Kink, Desire & Power Dynamics
Nicolette Routhier and Kari Kinkead of Erotic Reclamation explore kink, power dynamics, shame, and the somatic path to claiming desire fully.
Will I Ever Feel Anything Again After Pelvic Surgery?
Numbness after pelvic surgery is usually scar tissue, restricted fascia and a guarding nervous system, not dead nerves. Sensation often returns.
Why Do I Lose My Erection With a Partner?
An erection is a parasympathetic response, so it needs safety, not effort. Why you lose an erection with a partner but not alone, and what changes it.